Pressure and pain with deep sex

The fix: Switch positions — and try girl-on-top, which gives you more control in terms of depth and angle of penetration. The vaginal canal is most sensitive near the opening, so even the most spacious vags should still find shallow thrusting pleasurable.

Being tense during sex or being unable to become aroused.

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Make a water-based brand like KY or Astroglide your go-to; rely on a longer-lasting silicon formula like Replens Silky Smooth, or Wet Platinum for water play; and try the very effective coconut oil if you use a method besides condoms for birth control and STD protection.